Na'Kisha Crawford's new shocking tell-all relationship and advice book exposes her personal experiences with falling into loneliness and despair over looking for Mr. Right to overcoming her struggles and finding the man of her dreams through everlasting marriage, but her journey to happienss is no fairytale.
In Part One of her inspirational novel, Crawford shares her high school to young woman hood experiences as that girl seeking the ultimate "Bad Boy" and what all young girls seem to fall for not knowing the consequences. Her ideal man symbolized the coolness of her father's mystique, but little did she know the pain that would come from "playing with fire."
Her honest and candid novel plays out with "Real Talk" advice like a big sister who is now happily married, but can speak from her mistakes to guide women in choosing a committed man as a partner with qualities many single women today may overlook.
Crawford talks about falling prey to sweet talk and flirtatious men and later on wanting to get serious about possibly moving in with a fellow, but with controlling ways like wanting to avoid her friendship with his friends.
These are scenarios all girls in relationships will experience and Na'Kisha simply shares in-your -face tips like, "He will do just enough to keep you hopeful, but not enough to give you much hope!" If this sounds like you, maybe you'll want to read Crawford's book. If the situations sound like a personal friend's current life, you'll want to give this book as a gift.
A shocking revelation is exposed when Crawford finds herself having to help her friends make decisions who seem to be attracted to drug dealers, alcoholics and men who don't take care of their children, and which encouraged her to write the book.
Crawford does not profess to have all of the answers, but her poem at the end of her book, "Something Like a Superwoman," pretty much sums up her life in the present and all she has overcome from surviving breast cancer diagnosed at age 27 and not only accepting this challenge in her life, but with the love of her life.
All grown up, beautiful in spirit and fashion savvy like a runway literary model, Na'Kisha lives each day to the fullest as a licensed Real Estate Broker and fast on her way to becoming a top most requested motivational speaker. I got a chance to hear Na'Kisha Crawford bring the crowd to their feet with applause and right before a film presentation tribute to legendary historian Lerone Bennett, Jr. at the African American Pavilion at Book Expo. I enjoyed her book and her motivational message. Crawford symbolizes today's SUPERWOMAN!
So Good it Hurts is COMPASSIONATE, GENUINE, REAL and A GIRL'S TRUE BEST FRIEND from any walk of life searching for love through the pain and fight of one's past mistakes and VALIDATES those in a loving relationship who have survived the storm. I highly recommend this well-written book.
Disilgold SOUL Magazine Rating: *****5 Stars
